Hi, I am Janessa. I am so thankful you are visiting this site! I am an optimist, adventurer, athlete, animal lover, motorcycle enthusiast, avid learner, teacher, sister, farmer’s daughter, life partner to my significant other, Travis, and human companion to my precious Boxer, Kivah. I grew up on a farm in a very rural community and had the incredible experience of attending a one room country school for a couple years before attending traditional public school. My most cherished childhood memories involve bottle feeding baby calves, spending hours in the hay lofts with newly birthed litters of kittens, nurturing baby chicks with their yellow, soft, baby feathers, and riding my bike to the country school for noon recess before I was old enough to actually attend school.
I continued my education in college receiving both academic and athletic scholarships. On the surface it may have appeared as though I was thriving, but beneath the surface I was barely threading fast enough to keep my head above water. I was plagued with illness and physical injuries in high school sports which continued into my collegiate sporting venture. I developed an eating disorder just before turning 18. My relationships and friendships were strained and volatile. After getting married at a young age I found myself going through a divorce just one short year later.
This is when I slowly began to step into my authentic self and soul’s purpose. I began my Criminal Justice career working in the prison and was the first female assistant team lead of the Emergency Response Team. As an Intensive Supervision Probation Officer, I supervised high risk felony offenders who predominantly had an underlying addiction contributing to their offense. During my time as a Drug Court Coordinator, I worked alongside the public defender, prosecutor, and two District Court Judges to establish precedent due process proceedings when terminating participants from drug court and rehabilitated countless drug offenders. Lastly, I spent nearly a decade as an officer under the Department of Homeland Security’s agency for Citizen & Immigration Services where I was highly awarded for my work.
Both the impact of my work in the system and the system’s impact on me were profound. Trauma was a regular aspect of the work. I witnessed suicide attempts, overdoses, violence, and even believed to be shot at while serving an arrest warrant. I witnessed young children traumatized while their parents were being detained and family members traumatized by the methods used to serve search warrants. I knew my purpose was to help people rewrite their story– as I am rewriting mine from health issues, an eating disorder addiction, failed and broken relationships to a fulfilling life, a healthy body, and beautiful relationships–but there had to be better way of making impact in other people’s lives.
I was divinely led to alternative modalities of energy psychology and functional medicine, which facilitated my personal healing, releasing layer after layer of trauma, the physical healing of my body, and flipping the script of my own story. I was also divinely led to obtain certifications in these holistic modalities before I ever knew I was meant to utilize them to guide and facilitate healing for others.
And then I experienced being on the other side of the justice system. One afternoon I blew the cover of a FBI agent taking photos of my house, lying to me in an attempt to keep their cover, and shattering my security and safety I once had in my own home as a law-abiding citizen. I watched the system leverage quick deadlines, concealment of evidence, and trauma and fear in the words of the prosecutor “to push cases through fast” as they arranged a plea agreement with my significant other. The case against Travis left me with more questions than answers; questions I had the opportunity to pose to the prosecutor when I was subpoenaed as a witness to testify against Travis for indictment. Questions which received no logical answers, if any answer at all. This case was the most bizarre and perplexing exercise of justice I had witnessed in my two-decade career. Through this experience my eyes were opened to the injustice of justice and the wake of devastation those in the justice system, as well as their families, are left.
It was the previous training I obtained in those holistic modalities that assisted us to traverse the unexpected criminal charges to sentencing and beyond. The tools acquired through energy psychology allowed each of us to process the trauma, the shock, the self-betrayal, the loss, the panic attacks and anxiety, and the illusion. It allowed Travis and I to create a strengthened and harmonious relationship authentic to our commitment to one another and free of trauma bonding. It allowed us to remain centered in our truth and faith that life is always happening for us and never to us, as all things can be made good through the Divine.
Thus, a deeper passion of purpose has been born in me… increasing awareness and consciousness through healing addiction, injury from the justice system, and relationships. It is purpose to teach others how to heal themselves and bring the unseen to light for all to see. And it all begins with the relationship you have with yourself. As we master the relationship with Self, we become awakened to our full physical and spiritual capabilities. We see ourselves for the fiercely radiant being we are and allow our radiant soul to touch others with light, love, harmony, and hope. This is the secret to creating infinite beauty, intimate connections, and pure joy with others.
I’m a multi-passionate person, who has many interests. I’m an Enneagram 7 baby, I can’t be anything else but EXTRA. The common denominator is that all of my interests orbit around nature, crystals, plants, animals, holistic health and wellness, Mama Earth, metaphysics, personal and spiritual development, and the interconnectedness of harmonious relationships.
I love teaching ways to improve your life, your relationships, find joy, embody that IT factor, crystal healing, earth medicine, and holistic well-being with simple and easy to implement strategies that you can do every day to live a truly MAGICAL existence! There are no basic “B’s” here. We all have innate gifts that are our birth right and my mission is to help you discover yours and live a truly blessed life.
It’s been my experience that once someone gains knowledge and builds confidence around a mystical topic they deeply resonate with, their day-to-day life becomes more inspired, fulfilling, joyful, and the next step is that they usually feel the urge to start a business or side hustle! If that’s you, you’re in the right place to uplevel in the most authentic way possible & earn money doing it!
Here’s the important Stuff About Me:
I’m a wife to an amazingly patient, understanding, hella pretty, and gentle hubby. He’s the Yin to my Yang and when they say opposite attract…..well that is certainly true for our love story. He’s an Enneagram 9 and I find joy in getting to learn and grow with him every single day. He’s the constant peacemaker in our home that we share with 2 Magical kiddos. I’m a momma to Unicorn Rainbow Princess Enneagram 1 baby girl and a Football Playing Brave Cowboy Enneagram 7 little man. They show me what magic, love, joy, bliss, and true contentment looks and feels like.
When I’m not hanging out with my family or playing with crystals and plants you can find me in my yard talking to our flock of chickens, 2 pigs, 6 horses, 4 dogs, and herd of cats that cohabitate our little acreage.
This harmonious existence I have created certainly looks nothing like what I grew up with. I was brought up with an alcoholic abusive father and a beaten down codependent mom who had known nothing but abuse since the time she was born. Abuse was a way of life for both of my parents and divorce was a way of life for my family lines. One of the most amazing things that earth and energy medicine taught me was how to break family patterns, secrecy contracts, and abusive cycles that weren’t serving anyone.
My momma is on her way to finding her own self worth and innate power. She is an inspiration everyday as she has been walking her true calling now for quite sometime. My Dad has broken the physical abuse pattern and hopefully someday will break the addiction cycle. The most powerful discovery for me was that when we start to bring truths to light not all families fall apart………….some come back together. When we find who we truly are and heal the parts of us that are broken we call in other’s who will honor and love us as we have chosen to love and honor ourselves.
My hubby’s family patterns weren’t any healthier than mine. They were just a different kind of toxic. From traversing a marriage where his momma despised me and tried to separate us at every turn to traversing heartbreak when his father became severely ill and his mom wouldn’t allow him to see his dad if I was still in the picture to completely disconnecting from his immediate family. There is so much to this story/tragedy from family smear campaigns to psychotic breaks; truly stuff you would only expect to see on TV. But none of that is the important stuff……What is important is that we always found our way together, we always found safety and comfort in each other……We CHOSE each other.
Now I’m not going to tell you traversing either of these roads was easy, but had I had the “tools” then that I have now, I promise you we could have made our way through it with grace and ease. I’m a different person than I was then, because of the internal work I have done. I invested in me, my family, and living a life of magic. By the Grace of God, Great Spirit, The Universe I am where I am today living a life filled with love everlasting.
It truly is through our own personal healing that we find our way home and find others to create harmony, love, peace, and joy with. That internal work is what Stronger Together is all about & I am so excited to connect with you and help guide you on this powerful journey to find who you truly are & live a blessed life full of compassion, grace, joy, and unconditional love.
I love Natural Bio-Destressing (tapping)! It packs a powerfully healing punch and allows you to release traumas, phobias, limiting beliefs, allergies, negative emotions, calms anxiety, curbs food cravings, alleviates jet lag, improves sleep, and so much more. You can add it to your day too! When you don’t have time to tap, intentional deep breathing is an instant reset. (If the hyperlink doesn’t copy for the tapping tutorial it can be accessed here: Natural Bio-Destressing – YouTube)
11 Things About SJ …
Crystalline Currents – Energy Healing by SJ
1. What was your first moment of ‘beyond 3d normal awakening’?
2. Who is your favorite teacher, book and movie?
Cyndi Dale is my favorite energy healing teacher. My favorite book is Vibrational Medicine by Richard Gerber. My favorite movie is by far Gone With the Wind.
3. What’s the strangest experience you’ve ever had?
The strangest experience I have recently had was my first “contact” with aliens. I for the longest time was terrified of ever having any contact with aliens. I 100% believed in them and at the same time 100% avoided them. I was walking outside to lock up my flock of chickens and I instantly knew I was being actively watched by something not of this world. I ran to the house and locked the door. Then instantly laughed at myself, because what is a locked door going to do??? I then immediately messaged my bestie Janessa to help muscle test and walk me through this experience in a balanced manner. We were able to determine I needed boundaries and protection against less benevolent aliens, but open to those that are here to serve the good of mankind. After that work was complete I went outside and had the most amazing experience with my 1st encounter with aliens. A lot of information was delivered by them along with their affirmations of protection.
4. What’s one interesting thing we do not know about you yet?
My main animal spirit guides are: wolves, blue jays, and spiders
5. What do you feel your true life purpose to be?
My true life purpose is to help as many individuals as possible release the energetic ailments manifesting via genetic, ancestral, trauma, and/or past life patterns that prevent them from having the experience and life they desire to live.
6. What’s your favorite animal?
7. What’s your favorite consciousness or energy ‘exercise’ that helps you stay connected, grounded and ‘tuned in’ in a good way?
Light Column Activation
8. What’s your favorite music / song / musical artist?
My favorite song is Cheshire Kitten (We’re All Mad Here) by my favorite musical artist S.J Tucker.
9. What’s your favorite food?
10. What excites your creative juices?
Seeing other people excelling and achieving their dreams. I love celebrating wins and experiencing joy and gratitude around just being granted the opportunity to experience this life.
11. What’s the one thing you’d like to “shamelessly self promote” here today?